Xenia & Xephaniah
Dj the best midwife we could ever ask for.
Words can not begin to express how grateful we are to have had you come along two wonderful journeys with us. I remember when we first met I felt so comfortable with you {I was the shy one scared to ask questions} you were and are still so understanding. You knew exactly when to be a friend and when to be a midwife, especially when it came to me taking those silly iron tablets. You would text me just to check up even if it was your day off or if you were on holiday. Being in labour for the first time I was so scared and I no idea what to do, in the hospital not knowing when to push, how I should be pushing you explained it to me in such a way that made perfect since. But you gave me courage to go on according to my original plan. Three and half hours later you handed our first baby girl to us Xenia Dominique Rukia Mbofana born 7 December 2011.
I took a pregnancy test in November 2012 and two lines appeared, I ran and told Clayton and without even a thought I text you. I was so excited that we could go on another journey together. This time I remember at our appointments we spent more time talking {after everything was done of course}, just like old friends. I remember when you had told me about strep something {group B} and I was so worried, you made me feel at ease and you were happy to encourage me if I wanted to go on and use natural remedies to try and help. This time labour was a breeze, you came in on your day off which I thought was so wonderful because it showed me how much you cared for me and my babies {knowing that you were the only one I wanted to deliver my babies}. My contractions were so easy going that we were talking and I was singing the whole way through, complete opposite from no1. Five hours and three minutes later you hand our baby boy to me, I remember being the first to see if it was a boy. Xephaniah Willex Micha'el Mbofana 9 August 2013. We started the visits at home and it was like a friend coming to see us.
I am forever grateful to you for being there for us. Helping us from day one, taking us step by step from pregnancy to being full time parents. We will forever be friends, and the bond I have with you will never die. It brings a tear to my eye knowing that we won't be seeing each other on a regular. But I know that its certainly not the end of our friendship.
Forever grateful, Mā te Atua e manaaki
Clayton, Bernie, Xenia and Xephaniah Mbofana